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Anonymous 2024/06/24(Mon) 00:58:25 GMT No. 15272
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How does one go from complete relclusive internet loser, to having some semblance of a irl social life?

Anonymous 2024/06/24(Mon) 05:29:56 GMT No. 15274
>>15272
get a outdoor hobby and go to the gym. You can't socialize indoors

Anonymous 2024/06/24(Mon) 13:35:12 GMT No. 15275
>>15274
But I've done those things. (⇀‸↼‶)

Anonymous 2024/06/24(Mon) 15:59:17 GMT No. 15277
>>15275
What are some of your hobbies and what do you do at the gym?

Anonymous 2024/06/24(Mon) 19:47:59 GMT No. 15280
>>15277
mountain biking, running, hiking, the beach, swimming, fishing
i work out at the gym

Anonymous 2024/06/25(Tue) 03:44:04 GMT No. 15282
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>>15280
I'm going to be honest I have no idea how to start a social life. Those two reccomendations are all I got and they haven't worked for me so if someone else can step in and give you a hand that'd be swell

Najarin 2024/06/25(Tue) 09:09:05 GMT No. 15283
>>15282
you could try websites like meetup, look online for social circles with shared interests. You could even try the plain old fashioned way, go to a bar and get tipsy, you're bound to find someone who's up for chatting

Anonymous 2024/06/25(Tue) 20:27:24 GMT No. 15285
why does it matter desu ? just shut the fuck up

Anonymous 2024/06/25(Tue) 21:27:16 GMT No. 15287
>>15285
no u shut the fuck up

Anonymous 2024/06/25(Tue) 22:48:44 GMT No. 15288
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Alright that's it. I'm leaving and never coming back
EVER

E V E R

Anonymous 2024/06/25(Tue) 23:06:18 GMT No. 15289
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Okay so I just tried going outside and it was awful.
Back on the grind.

Anonymous 2024/06/26(Wed) 09:02:12 GMT No. 15292
the only way i can have an irl social life is if i was forced to interact with other people, try that and tell me if it works

Anonymous 2024/06/27(Thu) 22:17:37 GMT No. 15305
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>>15292
the only wasy I talk to new people is if I bomb their conversations. It's worked to varying effects.

Anonymous 2024/06/28(Fri) 19:26:13 GMT No. 15314
>>15272
If you're still a young man as I'm assuming, it's not really too late. The easiest way is honestly to just get a shitty job, hopefully with some people around your age. Get a shitty job at a restaurant, there is a comradery there that's palpable and hard to fuck with, even for a social retard like yourself. Beyond things like putting yourself in scenarios where people HAVE to talk to you like certain hobbies or whatever. It also helps to just be a well-rounded person. Go learn some shit, have a variety of things that you can comfortably talk about. I mean shit, you can go to a sports bar and people can't help but talk with whoever's near. Shit like MMA or basketball doesn't require a crazy amount of prior knowledge of the sport to sit there and be able to understand it and chat about what you're looking at. The throughline is you have to exert some level of effort as an adult. As a child it's real easy to just walk up to another kid, fight, then be friends for a considerable amount of time. Though some of those same principles are still intact you have to try a little harder.

Anonymous 2024/06/30(Sun) 01:12:13 GMT No. 15339
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>>15272
that's extremely easy anon. be a normie, conform, mimic the same thought-process and same priorities of everyone, copy their ideology and chase materialism, have filters, talk of the latest videogame flavor of the month game, give them a hand whenever they need moving out or else, get to bars with them, go to parties, invite people. also agree with what they say even if it's false and retarded. chances are they do not have the same hobbies as you so you'll also have to make up some stuff that makes people come together.

Anonymous 2024/07/01(Mon) 23:23:43 GMT No. 15348
>>15314
tl;dr be a NORMALFAG

Anonymous 2024/07/03(Wed) 04:14:01 GMT No. 15360
OP here. I actually had a whole conversation with an actual female. She had a boyfriend though, so w/e. But she didn't recoil in disgust like that the last one did. I'm so proud of myself. It's at least a step in the right direction anyway.

Anonymous 2024/07/03(Wed) 04:15:18 GMT No. 15361
>>15314
Not a young man anymore. I'm in my 40s.

Anonymous 2024/07/05(Fri) 21:06:51 GMT No. 15367
>>15272
there is no formula
formula implies system
system means, no free will
it is just, simply DONE
just DO IT
DONT LET YOUR DREAMS BE MEMES

Anonymous 2024/07/08(Mon) 06:13:39 GMT No. 15370
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>>15272
Ya don't

Anonymous 2024/07/16(Tue) 12:25:26 GMT No. 15388
>>15272
become a faggot

Anonymous 2024/07/21(Sun) 02:33:18 GMT No. 15397
its so fucking easy, but you dont have a social life because youre fucking lazy and dont want to put any effort in
follow these steps
>go to pub during the game, whatever sport from whatever country youre in
>watch game while drinking with the others
>say some shit like "are you seeing this ludicrous display?"
>blokes around you will chime in, especially if its later in the game and theyre getting drunk
>repeat for multiple games
>become a regular, chat about the sports with the other regulars
>????????
>have friends

Anonymous 2024/07/21(Sun) 16:19:15 GMT No. 15401
>>15397
>go to pub
>watch sports
If that's what you like doing, being around loud retards. I suspect that's not what OP likes to do because that's the most basic advice anyone could give.

Anonymous 2024/07/28(Sun) 06:40:13 GMT No. 15417
>>15397
Okay, I tried this for shits and giggles and here is my experience:
It's Saturday here. I decided to go for a walk and hit up a few of the bars I've seen change several times over the years, from more dive-y places to classier as the demographic changed. I walked into the first one and after thinking about the prices, the types of people that go there, and the pressure to do interact with dubiosuly belligerent randos I started getting really nervous and walked out of there. My experiences at the other ones were similar: walking into a place that's too loud to talk surrounded by the same bar smell you can find in any city where the women dress like whores and wear whore perfume; the cheap stuff Deus' mom wears on our now less frequent dates. I wound up getting one beer at an old bar I knew and going back home.

That was shit advice anon, I hope you get AIDS

Anonymous User 2024/08/03(Sat) 09:20:05 GMT No. 15435
>>15417
A bunch of bumwhores

Anonymous 2024/08/03(Sat) 11:04:31 GMT No. 15438
literally go outside and explore the world..... interact with people, disregard your feelings and experience new things that change your own personal worldview. I used to be a reclusive internet loser for the past 4 years with the advent of quarantine, ever since that ended and people came outside again i've become way more socialable. neva lose your neet roots though

Anonymous 2024/08/03(Sat) 15:45:13 GMT No. 15439
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>>15438
>with the advent of quarantine
heh, casual

Anonymous 2024/08/03(Sat) 20:38:04 GMT No. 15440
>>15272
you dont

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